先谋生, 再谋爱

The author throws a sharp question at city girls: making a living and seeking love, which is more important? She tells many stories of different women, from Princess Diana, Chanel, Teresa Teng, Maggie Cheung to her neighbors, previous colleagues, and make-up artists. She intends to pinpoint the minefields in life for you and bring you to the warn and safe destination. She wants to tell all women: only by living a wonderful life by yourself, without worrying about losses and gains, without pleasing others, without shrinking from difficulties, or hesitating back and forth can you become a respected independent woman, living with a tender appearance and an unyielding spirit. Good girl, please make a living before reaching out to seek love. This book states that making a living is first, and looking for love is next. The author, Li Xiaoyi, is an influential Chinese writer promoting the new-wave feminism. In this book, she tells the stories of Diana, Princess of Wales, Coco Chanel, Teresa Teng and other women to examine life of modern females.